wishesfreedom

SIGNS U SHOULD DUMP YOUR GUY.
1) you felt easily annoyed by him and can't stand the very sight of him.
2) you are constantly making excuses for his mistakes and attitude.
3) he doesn't make you smile anymore.
4) you're embarrassed to introduce him.
5) he doesn't keep his word.
6) he doesn't broaden your horizons.
7) he repeatedly puts you down.
8) he no longer considers your feelings.
9) you keep secrets from him.
10) he doesn't tell you about important things.
11) his little bad habits makes your blood boil.
12) you feel trapped.
13) he loves to flirts around.
SNAPPY COMEBACKS FOR SINGLES.
When your aunt asks why you still haven’t settled down, turn up the sarcasm with these one-liners.
“Why aren’t you married yet?”
“I’d rather be happily single than unhappily married.”
“I bet you’re just too fussy.”
“Indeed! I’m sure the answer to all my problems is to lower my standards and go out with a loser.”
“How long have you been single for now?”
“Still not long enough to find that question any less irritating.”
“Don’t worry, you probably just haven’t met the right man yet.”
“Don’t you worry, I’m having plenty of fun looking.”
“You won’t find someone until you stop looking!”
“Perhaps I should get two red-hot pokers and shove them in my eyes, shall I? That will surely make me so much more attractive to the menfolk.”
“I’m sure men are just intimidated by your success/beauty/intelligence/biting wit.”
“Obviously, this is my fault for being too good! I’m always turning down guys for being too successful, hot, smart and funny.”
if all these fails, just hold your tongue.
TIPS ON MAINTAINING RELATIONSHIP.
1) tell her you love her - woman needs security. just send her these three simple words via sms and you've just succeeded on plastering a smile on her face. it's heart warming when your partner sees this.
2) be flexible - if you've got a partner who loves different cuisine from you ? instead of telling her what type of cuisine u wanted, suggest it to her that both of you'll have your fav cuisine next week and now you'll have her's.
3) surprise her - what can i say ? women actually love surprises. it doesn't have to cost much. a simple caring act like preparing her food or buying it and delivering it to her so that she won't starve would be good enough :)
4) apologize - you know it's your fault. apologize and make sure she accepts it then move on after that. you won't lose face by doing so. time to wake up.
5) trust - one of the most important things in a relationship. make sure you don't lie to her.
6) communicate well - she did not have the ability to read minds. so, speak up. tell her what u actually meant before she misinterprets it !
7) appreciate and respect each other - appreciate what she's done for you. thank her for doing you something. respect her ideas because your ideas are worth as mush as her ideas.
8) patience - it takes time to get along. everyone's different, so are your likes n dislikes compared to her's.
9) listen - be a good listener. do i still have to elaborate much on this ?
10 ) remember the dates - anniversaries and birthdays are important. prepare something special and make her day :)
WAYS TO MAKE A GIRL SMILE.
1) tell her she's beautiful.
2) hold her hand at any moment. even if it's just for a second.
3) hug her from behind.
4) Never EVER hang out with your ex when she's not with you. you might not realize how badly it hurts her.
5) if you're talking to another girl, when you're done talking, walk over and hug her and kiss her. let her know she's yours and they aren't.
6) write her notes or call her just to say her. this actually express on how much you missed her and how much u missed her voice. she might say you're silly or something but, trust me, deep down she's smiling.
7) introduce her to your friends as your GIRLFRIEND.
8) play with her hair.
9) pick her up *she loves it.
10) get upset if another guy touches her and she doesn't like it.
11) make her laugh.
12) let her fall asleep in your arms.
13) if she's mad at you, kiss her.
14) if you care about her, tell her.
15) treat her the same around your friends and as you do when both of you were alone.
16) look in her eyes and smile.
17) hang out with her on weekends.
18) kiss her for NOTHING. just because you love to do it.
19) remember her birthday and get her something. even if it's simple and inexpensive, it came from YOU. it meant all the world to her.
20) when she gets you something on special occasions, take it and tell her you love it. ( even if you don't, it'll make her happy )
21) recognize the small things in her life, it usually meant a lot to them.
22) don't hug friends who are girls, she'll feel left out.
23) hang out with her whenever you're free. that's like a DUH ~
24) if you care about her, quit talking and start showing !
THINGS THAT A GIRL WANTS BUT WILL NOT ASK FOR.
1) touch her waist.
2) talk to her.
3) share secrets with her.
4) give her your jacket.
5) kiss her slowly and passionately.
6) hug her from behind around the waist.
7) hold her.
8) laugh with her.
9) invite her somewhere.
10) hangout with her and your friends.
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11) smile with her.
12) take pictures with her.
13) pull her onto your lap.
14) when she says she loves you more, deny it. fight back.
15) when her friend says i love her more than you, deny it, fight back and hug her tight so she cannot get to her friends. it makes her feels being loved.
16) always hug her and say i love you whenever you sees her.
17) kiss her unexpectedly.
18) hug her.
19) tell her she's beautiful.
20) let her know she's your one and only.
21) tell her she's your everything - only if you mean it.
22) if it seems like there's something wrong, ask her - if she denies something being wrong, it means that SHE DOESN'T WANNA TALK ABOUT IT - so, just hug her. when she felt like she's ready to be telling you, she'll pour it out.
23) make her feel loved.
24) kiss her in front of other girls you know.
25) they might deny it, but they actually like and kinda want you to tickle them.
26) do not lie to her.
27) do not cheat on her.
28) take her anywhere she wants.
29) text her or call her in the morning wishing her to have a good day at work or school, and telling her how much u miss her.
30) be there for her whenever she needs, or even when she doesn't need so she'll know that she can count on you.
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31) hold her close when she's cold so she can hold you too.
32) when you are alone, hold her close and kiss her.
33) kiss her on the cheek ( it will give her the hint that you want to kiss her )
34) while both of you were watching movie, put your arm around her and she'll automatically put her head on your shoulder. lean in, and tilt her chin up and kiss her lightly.
35) don't ever tell her to leave, even JOKINGLY or act like you're mad. if she's upset, comfort her.
36) when people diss her, stand up for her.
37) when walking next to each other, hold her hand.
38) when you hug her, hold her in your arms as long as possible.
39) call or text her at night to wish her sweet dreams.
40) comfort her when she cries and wipe away her tears.
41) take her for long walks at night.
42) always remind her how much you love her.
43) sit on top of her and tell her how much you love her and then bend down to her face and kiss her while sitting on her.
wishesfreedom
ok, this sucks !
i just found someone using my pic on facebook ! wat the heck...imposter !!
Emily Tan Sin Yee.
i will remember u...*grrhhh....sudahlah ambil my pic...now clash name with me....
homeworks are tiring me...totally dragged me down to hell...
oh ! i finally member doing the finger "cute,handsome n ugly" thing to han edi.... :x
did the disection on chicken's heart....will ask pic frm sze next time....she hasn't send to me yet....maybe MIGHT receive hp tomorrow :) JUST maybe ! :(
thurs how ee went over to han's place....n wanna play the chinese chess game....
then han started DIRECT translating every one....which made it like superbly FUNNY.
noe what's god chess ? it's "shen qi" which actually meant miracle in eng ! lol....
i kinda forgotten to jot down on the funny events happened this few days....so, sad to say, i forgotten them n can't post here :( sorry.
that shall be it, my short and miserable post :|
wishesfreedom
ok....i ran out of title....he wasn't around this few days....n i missed him A LOT.
yeah, i meant wat i said...or should i say typed.... xD
nothing just seems to be right to me whenever he's not around....in a disaster mode.
really behavin in a kinda down way these few days....
treated myself some ice-cream today *it does helps to enlighten me whenever i'm down :)
eng class : miss tang ....yeah...got in her forever hyper mood again....
threw ju's ruler on the ground n stomp on it like kino did to the scorpion...
omg...so cham....then hit her like smashin the scorpion...ouch !
gan was hugged like baby coyotito...n their bottles being flung here n there....LOL....pity them :\
tomorrow ! chicken heart disection ! yesh !!!! :D
lol ! in bio class today...some of our class members were selected to sing the heart flow song....which, makes the whole class LAUGHED....i mean like everyone were havin so much fun ! even the lab assistant or some other ppl put in their heads to listen why and what were we laughing at !
Shan Hoe, Sarnjev, Shahrul, Gan n Div sang...FUNNY GILA.
sivik class, honestly, haven come up with any sekolah idaman concept thingy....but teacher just out of nowhere asked us on our progress n we were required to give our reports infront...
as the leader, i'm suppose to come up with the report n talk infront....yeap ! i blushed again...like flushed, i'm pink ~
ugh ! never speaks infront so formally....i nearly got my tongue tied !
me n yen ping throwin in ideas...n bullshitted ! n amazingly, teacher bought our ideas :D *say cheese !
after skool, just stayed back for homeworks n stuff while waitin to go tuition...and we gossiped A LOT....xD and of course, at the same time had quite some laugh ~ walked today...with Yolanda :)
sze started her maths tuition thing after miss lee's class edi...so she will just drop me of at the paip n i will have to start walking home....T^T so lazy....
CNY comin....can't celebrate Valentine's with him...omg ! how sad....it's like...my first year of valentine's gone....CRAP.
it's been a 8 months plus now :D i'm so happy bout it....soon it's gonna be a year....n i will definitely make sure that we'll last longer than just a year....continue being all lovey dovey ~ ;)
oh ya ! i better remind myself to pamper my hair more often...it's really getting drier....and more split ends....treatments will help and i just did one not long ago :)
it's all smooth n giving out sweet frangrance now ~ yay :D
should i treat myself toblerone later....i mean, i like the honey n almond nougat thing but too much chocs makes my throat feel dry...
i just felt like drinking something sweet n cold now.
our one year together would be near his b'day....i better start thinking as well as preparin....i'm afraid i might not be free that time... :X
CONCLUSION,
heed my words YCH !
one fact ---- besides missing you like mad, i love YOU.
don't u dare leaving my side, or i shall twist ur head 360 degree !